Women in the Netherlands work less, have a big gender pay gap, and they love it

Does this apply to us?

I would hate to think that HN people would burn themselves out in an office for anything other than a passion for their work, not a drive to make more money or "succeed" in the conventional nomenclature of the American office.

As such, I doubt I could be interested in a partner who didn't have a similar desire to master her craft. Women who "succeed in the workplace" and stay-at-home moms are similar in my eyes, part of a false dichotomy.