How to Delete Your Data from 23andMe, Ancestry, and Other Sites
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Fundamentally, this seems to be one of those “negative externalities” that you cannot protect yourself from with individual action. Nor can I think of any technological fixes that would allow these companies to continue offering the same features without storing this data. Although they could obviously offer stripped down versions where you get an analysis one and data is erased afterwards.
The only promising route I can see here is a political / legal framework establishing a transparent process with high hurdles to the use of this data. I believe other medical data is already protected in such a way, i. e. with a higher standard, and more oversight than, say, a plumber’s files or even financial data. Genetic data seems to creep people out across all typical political boundaries, and this should be an easy sell.