I mean, yes, we shouldn't buy iOS devices. But we should accept that things have ad hoc vendor-controlled "rules" just because someone baked them into the things, either.
> what Apple allows you to run on your own device is actually a different story, not related to this news
How so? It's not like Facebook and Google were hacking their way in here. They asked users "please run this software" and users had the option to do so. Seriously how is that any different than "please run my great jailbreak environment" or "here's a new OS for your iPhone"?
It was the behavior and marketing of these spyware things that we shouldn't like, not their mechanism.