I think you're completely missing the point.
If you ruin everyone else's day, and change behaviour everyone else is expecting, then it's probably your own fault.
Approaching it as if everyone should simply change and do what you want, is the height of arrogance. You are generating work for others. And in this particular case, not only are you generating work for others, you are eradicating a category of software.
When a distribution adopts systemd, they let everyone know how things are changing, and slowly transition things over, releasing when stable.
We know systemd replaces init.d. It was difficult, but distributions using systemd got over that hurdle, but it did take time.
However, this is not the same.
Yes, systemd is userland, however it is also PID 1. It is a layer between most userland and the kernel, and so needs to reflect the responsibility of it's position.
Ignoring how NOHUP is supposed to be interpreted, is a _bad idea_, and yes, a violation of POSIX, specifically signals (SIGHUP and nohup), and how they are supposed to be handled.
Moreso, it greatly heightens the difficulty of many utilities that are expected to work.
Why should cron (all implementations of cron), suddenly need to rely on another userland library to maintain it's function?
You just broke most Linux automation. Across an entire industry.
Why should screen (all implementations of screen), suddenly need to rely on a userland library much bigger than most implementations, to continue it's base function?
You just broke an entire category of background systems - including systems communicating with embedded hardware. You might have caused a factory-floor fault. Which could cause injury, or worse.
A breaking change of this level can cause industry-wide ramifications that are not just limited to the digital. Unexpected behaviour is exceptional, and should take time and considerable thought before occurring.
Systemd has responsibility that no other userland system has. It's PID 1.
If they're going to require a massive change in process behaviour, then they are going to require consultation, awareness within the industry, and transition time. They should be working with distributions, aware of the man-hours they're generating, before they put something in place.