eg 1 banana = 10 utils, 1 apple = 5 utils, 1 car = 100 utils, etc
utils are just a proxy for money and/or time which are interchangeable through wages paid for labor
money is our real world way of valuing the utility of goods, labor, and more generally time (the scarcest resource of them all)
utility functions will never describe an individuals preferences perfectly (hell you couldn’t perfectly describe the utility of any of the transactions you make) but they’re useful when describing and predicting aggregate behavior, especially when fed a lot of consumer data (higher confidence)
all of game theory also uses the concept of utility to weigh payoffs and there are many many real world applications of game theory
its not perfect but no models are perfect, that’s why we have statistics and probability theory to guide us as well