> Lending is a two party interaction.
Actually, it's not. Borrowing money is the sole responsibility of the borrower, who decides how much money he wants to borrow based on the impact it will have on their finances.
For a loan to materialize, the borrower needs to be aware of how much it will cost him and for how long he will have to repay or service the loan.
That's all the borrower's responsibility.
Only after the borrower is aware of the immediate and long-term impact of his actions will the borrower petition a lender to execute the loan. The lender's only role in the deal is to double-check the borrower's assumptions to ensure the borrower is actually capable of keeping his word and pay back the money he is borrowing.
It's also extremely disingenuous to criticise higher interest rates as they are a safety mechanism that reflects the borrower's ability to repay future loans, and are supposed to act as pressure to dissuade the borrower from digging himself into a finantial hole.
> You shouldn’t just blame on party of the two party interaction.
That's simply wrong on so maby levels. The only part who holds any form of responsibility is the borrower. He's the one making the decision to ask for more loans being fully aware of his financial situation and the impact the new loans have on his cash flow. He is the only part of the arrangement who actively petitions for the deal and has full and complete access to his economic state. The borrower is the only part who has the legal power to sign on the loands. The borrower is the only part who actively seeks the loans and actively engages with each and every single lender in the world to fulfill his desires for more debt.