most people aren't like this but on average engineers who are truly innovatively thinking about these problems and creating solutions are. it is just the way it is
Human babies have bigger head-to-body ratio compared to all other species due to our brain being bigger. Our babies have to be born earlier or otherwise they cannot make it out of the mother alive.
Outside of that, we develop pretty quickly. As you pointed out, everything in us is developing in parallel which is quite impressive.
Alpha Zero got to be so strong at chess through millions of games of self-play. I would like to see how it would fare with only one hundred games, against a human chess beginner with one hundred games under his/her belt.
So how do you compare the amounts of data needed?
Then show it a single example of a new animal it has never seen, and see how well it would do at telling you if challenge images are or are not that animal.
It's not even going to be close to what a human would manage.
It's not because of the data, it's because a human understands what he's seeing.
I may have all sorts of images in my mind, allowing me to make the distinction?