But to fulfill your yearning, the original NYT report mentions “consent” 12 times: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/18/technology/facebook-priva...
(Although two of those mentions are in the context of “consent decree”, which arguably doesn’t make it look any better)
A taste:
“This is just giving third parties permission to harvest data without you being informed of it or giving consent to it,” said David Vladeck, who formerly ran the F.T.C.’s consumer protection bureau. “I don’t understand how this unconsented-to data harvesting can at all be justified under the consent decree.”
So I stand by my accusation that you are pretending to be stupid, because no person working at Facebook would really be unable to find the accusation of private data being shared in an article titled “Facebook gave Spotify and Netflix access to users’ private messages”