For example, in this article: "the controversial ITER project, a hugely expensive fusion reactor..." There is no doubt this is an expensive project, estimated at ~$20B total cost (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ITER#Funding) However, in terms of possible upsides or even compared to other projects it's _cheap_. Boston's "Big Dig" was $24B for example: https://www.boston.com/uncategorized/noprimarytagmatch/2012/... Which would you rather have? A 1.5m tunnel, or an energy source that would change the future of human civilization?
I am being somewhat unfair here since the Big Dig was a case study of mismanagement and cost overruns, but as a society we should be willing to spend significant resources on world changing research instead of say $22.5B on three new boats: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zumwalt-class_destroyer
All that being said, the way forward is probably to figure out ways to make fusion related projects smaller in scale and cost. Then multiple attempts can proceed in parallel without all the organizational and governmental overhead. More on that here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KkpqA8yG9T4