DNN DAGs are big, but they are very simple structurally compared to the kind of stuff you see in a real ISA!
The reason I was asking after tree-width is that control and dataflow graphs in structured programming languages usually have small tree-width (which gets added to the maximum number of overlapping patterns during instruction selection, more or less) and this leads to the fast heuristics used by the PBQP solvers in llvm and libfirm. It's been a few years since I looked into this though, so I'm probably a bit behind the state of the art. :)
As you most likely know, DAG selectors have to tile the CFG (which can have back-edges due to control flow) into a forest of DAGs, which are then fed to the instruction selector. So from a big program, you get a bunch of DAGs. The DAGs are selected separately, which means that when they execute one-after-the-other or in parallel, there may be inter-DAG conflicts on things like issue ports, or memory ports in ALUs. I'm sure there are a billion mitigation strategies for this, but for DNNs the landscape is a little different.
With a DNN you may have parallel paths, but they are typically few, and there are no back-edges. So the entire program is a DAG, and you don't have to tile and select separately!