Dear iPhone–It Was Just Physical, and Now It’s Over
nautil.us
nautil.us
1) A communication device 2) A music player 3) A glorified search engine when I'm not at a computer
I think because I never really dived head-first into social media I don't have a strong desire to use my phone beyond when I need it for the above functions.
Interestingly, if I carried a paperback around with me, and pulled it out to read it when waiting for things, and read it before bed, would I be considered to have a "page time" problem, or is that more acceptable? If it's more acceptable, maybe that points to this being less a problem about spending time on the phone, and more about what we spend our time on in general.
Me it’s from my phone. It’s 30 past midnight here in London and I’m eating, alone in the Airbnb I booked (don’t worry, I had a great evening :-), so I guess I could watch TV.
But I’m reading HN.
Today I visited London a bit, gone to British Museum, and made a lot of bus time.
So I used my smartphone, while on the bus or in the queue to BM to follow events in Paris and France (as I’m french)
Again, with my smartphone.
So is it wasted time ? Maybe. I don’t know what else I could have done. Speaking with people was not possible, queuing between Italians and people from another country that I didn’t get the language.
I could have listen to music (or a podcast or whatever) but I was concerned with the situation in France.
So for me it’s a computer that I can use anywhere.
On the other hand, do I waste time on it ? More than I should. But I too waste time on my computer doing the same stuff !
That's an odd thing to volunteer and present a justification for when no one has accused you of having a “screen time problem”.
Both Android and iOS have gotten features to help curtail excessive phone use, which is a good first step. Something I do while I'm at work is put my phone in my drawer and in airplane mode.
The biggest pillar I'd like to see destroyed in modern tech (specifically wrt smartphone overuse) is advertising - the incentives are just so poisonous. Ads seem to be the driving force behind making certain apps, like instagram, as addictive as possible. A hard regulatory line needs to be drawn.
If I pull it out to read a book, I’ll treat my phone as if I’m reading a book and won’t care so much about how much “screen time” I have. Or if I’m using something like Instapaper. If I’m using Reddit, I’m looking for news on a specific thing or I’m looking for information on a topic, and Reddit is just one stop I make along the way, that doesn’t change whether I’m on my phone or laptop.
If I’m watching a movie or something in bed, then it is time I would have spent on a television screen anyway. If I’m taking notes, I’m taking notes. If I’m journaling, I’m journaling.
I’m not interested in how much time I spend on my phone specifically, I’m interested in knowing if I waste time. So far, I don’t feel like I waste time. My recreation time is well accounted for, and some of it is spent on my phone too, but I’m not against spending some of it on my phone.
At the end of the week when iOS 12 sends me a report on how I spent my time, I’m generally not surprise. If I am surprised, I try to be more conscientious going into the next week.
thing is, they are right - phones do take us out of the now. Probably the next big development will be Agents running on our phones that actively fight the predations of facebook et al. I would like to even write one.
The first thing i should write is an app that limits my TV watching - then HN :-)
But till then, we do get much positive out of these things. We just have to put them down more
Time spent looking at my phone
Time spent sitting all alone
Time spent looking at my phone
I try to pull the curtains back
Turn you off, can't be touched
When all I want and all I know
Is time spent looking at my phone
Find me when the lights go down
Signing in signing out
Gods descend to take me home
Find me staring at my phone
I'm wondering where the hours went
As I'm losing consciousness
My sullen face is all aglow
Time spent looking at my phone
MGMT - TSLAMP https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=stynWxPJ4PE
The fact that other people might share similar experiences with other devices, and that the author even recognizes this, doesn't change the fact that the personal experience being addressed relates specifically to an iPhone.
Do we really need a whole article to say "I'm not using my phone that much and now I feel enlightened."
Maybe I'm being a little cynical, but.. so what?
https://pics.me.me/tired-o-looking-at-bad-screen-cant-wait-t...