An Optimal Life
What is your optimal life? Are you close to living that lifestyle that you call optimal? If not, what steps do you take day by day to optimise your life's options as much as possible?
For example, you see this behavior when people fail to commit to attending an dinner, movie or other event, just in case something better comes up.
Sometimes commitment (closing off options) works better. People trust the committed and they will step up to help them.