I want to unpack a few assumptions before responding.
1) There are 150 million vehicles which can be remotely controlled via the vehicle manufacturer's software, which has generally mediocre application security.
2) The software in question is vulnerable to SQL injection, allowing up to 150 million vehicles to be remotely commandeered by a small group of attackers.
3) No hostages are taken and no owners of cars are deliberately harmed, because this is an application security scenario and not a kidnapping scenario (which is orthogonal).
The scenario you've posed is oddly florid...thinking through it, no, I don't think the robbery of 150 million vehicles is as serious as a bridge collapse with 50 (presumably occupied) vehicles on it.
Speaking more directly to the point - I think this is a really poor comparison. Logistically speaking it's hard to take seriously the idea that 150 million cars would actually be stolen because of any single SQL injection vulnerability. SQL injection is really bad, but it doesn't directly result in injury or loss of life. It's also hard to conceive of a situation in which SQL injection has the potential to cause systemic collapse like you're describing...maybe SQL injection to a database containing credentials that have write access to a server which can launch ICBMs?
In the modal case, I think it's okay to admit that application security is not as serious a concern as architectural stability. But this entire discussion is pretty much a sideshow; we can just all agree that security needs to be taken seriously and that some bureaucratic scar tissue is okay to make that happen.