I am a female programmer with 2 jobs. No time for Open Source. Am I a bad coder?
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the whole point is having some creative outlet so you dont go bonkers mad.
those who controbute do it because its their idea of fun (or by now, soul-killing-duty)
start a blog, do art. worry about you and not what anyone thinks.
people who judge you solely by internet points arent people you want to work with. i know a few, too.
great coders existed before FOSS. great coders will exist after FOSS.
people have families, people have different struggles.
go easy on yourself, and code however you like, i say.