Asking people to refer to you how you want to be addressed
IS madness. You must then ask every person how to refer
to him/her/them/it/cis/trans/pan before you assume standard
English is good enough.
Please do not refer to madness as "your." "This" would
be preferable. Also, I do not recognize that "our"
language should change to address a tiny minority
wishing to be referred to in a non-binary sense.The analog between using computers and non-binary self-identification is a strawman/woman/person/thing. Which straw<something> will be acceptable?