I just watched RED a few days ago (in my home) and it just opened 2 weeks ago, if that.
Ditto on Monsters, which I saw before it opened around here.
And tonight I'll be watching Social Network, which is in the theaters everywhere but it's just not convenient for me to drag my gf and her 6 and 9 year old to see a movie they won't want to sit through (well she will, but the kids, not likely).
I'd be willing to pay for this privilege - aka watching in the comfort of my own home - but they leave me no choice in the matter.