IOTA's coordinator in contrast defines when a transaction can be considered confirmed.
They are nothing alike.
I dont really see how XRP is really any different than Paypal. If they can ban me, stop me from sending my tokens to whoever I want, or reverse my transaction I don't feel as though im getting any of crypto's benefits.
Not sure if thats general thinking, but it is at least mine.
Ripple Inc only controlled all validating nodes until stable third party nodes were established. Each node decides which other nodes to trust. There is a default Unique Node List (trusted nodes) provided by Ripple. But, the UNL is not a list of all validating nodes.
At this time Ripple only controls 39% of nodes on the default UNL. If Ripple Inc turned to dust the XRP network would continue on.
No entity, not even Ripple Inc., can freeze XRP or prevent you from sending it. Assets can be frozen by the issuing entity but XRP cannot ever be frozen.
99% of coins are bewilderingly shitty.
IOTA has said you should consider a transaction confirmed if their centrally controlled coordinator has accepted it. So no it's not a cryptocurrency as they should be decentralized.
(This is of course assuming Tether is not an actual fraud, when all the evidence points that way)