I've had a single issue across many EBS drives partitioned with only XFS, in several mdadm configurations. The data-loss occured during a maintenance window, so I'm convinced it was an EBS issue and not XFS.
I've also used it on physical hardware and never experienced dataloss, even losing drives in RAID configurations (I will admit I was lucky enough to never lose 2 drives in my normal RAID10 setup).
I've had several filesystems become corrupted, but the XFS community is extremely helpful, and the tooling that comes with it has never failed me in at least letting me figure out what's actually wrong.