Yes. It seems stupid, but what you outline is a 100% match with what I’ve seen in practice. Until it happened to them, the other company was stupid and careless - not them.
At risk of repeating myself I’m chalking this up to basic human behaviour in all fields of life and the lack of taking responsobility by 80% of all people.
Security is very lopsided in that you just need 1 person to be careless for the attacker to get in, while the defender needs to be 100% secure across all vectors.
I could discuss this all day, and you know the importance of the topic, I know it, but the fact of the matter is that most non-tech people think of security as an annoyance. The solution? No idea yet, other than finding the right chord to strike and “fix” this psychological problem. We’ve made significant strides the last few months but getting companies more security conscious has been a tougher nut to crack than I first anticipated.
Feel free to email me at stan@site.security if you want to exchange thoughts on the topic. I’d love to take a deeper dive into the matter with anyone that’s passionate about solving the security problem in any way shape or form :)