I don't know a lot about the US, but here in the UK, in a city like London I don't think it's useful, for example, to say people are being 'priced out'.
What's actually happening is that those that own property as of N years ago are permanent residents, and will never really sell their properties, so it's just full. You have suburbs full of families that will never move out, and if they do move out, will just rent the building out rather than selling.
The indirect effect of that is that prices go up, but you're really just seeing that the commuter belt of semi-detached homes is full and that's that.
It's common to talk about knocking down homes or building more homes or whatever. The thing is that for the most part, only non-residents actually want that (because for them the choice is between high density or not living there). If you own a decently sized family home with a garden you're just not going to give it up and move into a block of flats. It's a strict downgrade in every sense of the word, even if the square footage is the same.
No-one wants to live in a block of flats unless they're too poor to afford a house.
So yeah, the answer is to go elsewhere. Go to a city that actually welcomes newcomers. Places like London are no longer income-based, they're wealth-based. Starting from scratch here you're at an enormous disadvantage.