That's why I personally like Twitter.
1. There is no private (there is, but ignore that)
2. Choose a topic to post about. Further that and none else.
3. Post topical discussions only.
4. Don't involve yourself in screeds. There will be a sentence that is taken out of context.
Doing these creates a really cool group over $thing. And that positive attraction pulls more in :)
This is the good side of social media: connecting people with similar interests from around the world.