> Even if the suburb doesn't have "bums", the area around your job still does, no?
It doesn't have very many, actually. I'd say more about why not, but that would get into self-doxx territory.
> So now you also e.g. have to bring lunches rather than taking advantage of the restaurants nearby to work. Kind of constraining.
Wat? Independently of the previous item, I pack lunches because a packed lunch costs me a little under a tenth of a restaurant lunch nearby. Restaurants are a twice-a-month type of luxury, and I can't imagine throwing away that kind of dosh on a daily basis.
> Also, even if you aren't "living in terror", it still makes you feel instinctually guilty to see people less-advantaged than you, doesn't it?
In a word: no.
> (Oh, and also, people that didn't want to move into the city—like you!—would now move into the city, also increasing the local tax base.)
I like my place for other reasons. Top among them: it's less than half as expensive as an apartment that's near my workplace, yet it's still well within commuting range and is perfectly nice by my standards.
Aaand I don't really see that as a problem to solve; I like car ownership for other reasons, and given that I own a car, I want to use that situation to decrease other expenses to the greatest extent possible.