I'm surprised how many people crave some sort of grade or score like an insurance appraisal when it comes to their footprint. I guess so if it's high, they can guilt themselves into reducing it, and if it's low, they can guilt others into reducing theirs (good luck with the second part).
There's also a big "cosmo-quiz" element here, where certain aspects involve a temptation to lie to yourself in order to get the score you feel you "deserve".
If I told you a cross-section of passengers on the RMS Titanic was comparing their relative contributions to the momentum of the ship toward the iceberg, you'd probably gain a different perspective on the question you asked.
A few nits here:
•I work from home
In what country, what kind of industry, and what kind of home? A coal commodities trader in Australia vs. a wind turbine designer in Denmark might make for a huge swing.
•drive 10k miles a year
Bumper-to-bumper or wide open high-speed driving? There's at least a threefold difference in those two numbers, with bumper-to-bumper using far less carbon.
•eat beef once a month
What about chicken? almonds? grapes? corn? Coca-Cola? The relative carbon footprints of each food would be necessary to know. Beef itself has a radically different footprint whether consumed in say, Texas, Brazil, or Japan.
•16 flights a year
On your own personal GulfStream V, or crammed in to full-up Spirit A321's? The former is a huge use of fuel whereas the latter uses fewer gallons of fuel per mile per person than driving an SUV alone.
•I buy little stuff
Wait until you reproduce, move, or your government expands. This is not a place you can commit savings and I think a lot of people struggle to accept this. Further, the stuff you buy can almost be inversely proportional in terms of transportation infrastructure requirements. Someone who gets one small Amazon package a month living on an Alaskan island with millions of dollars of bridge-to-nowhere infrastructure would be far bigger a carbon producer than a shopaholic clothes-horse living on a major Manhattan thoroughfare.