Idleness as Flourishing
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But, I'm also really of the mind that I should still be productive with every moment of my life; at least in so far as "productive" means "making money". That's simply because I just want to retire ASAIP, regardless of age. When it comes down to it, though, it still seems like I love the idle time more, and always choose it when I can (which is great that I'm able to)
I find that these days I rarely get any significant time to myself without interruptions of some kind. Like the article suggests this stifles my creativity because I can't think deeply enough about a subject before I'm distracted. It's true with my current lifestyle I get more done but it's less meaningful.
https://www.amazon.com/Deep-Work-Focused-Success-Distracted/...
Deep Work is more of a how-to book - about how to get ahead in world that's losing its ability to focus (due to the stuff described in The Shallows).
If you spend 2 hours commuting every day, then that's 2 hours that are essentially wasted, that could be used to cultivate idleness (or other, less idle activities).
I am so much happier to have all but eliminated my commute by living close to my office. Even when I was taking the train and could read, listen to music, play games, etc, those were always compromise activities and didn't contribute to my personal happiness.
Other people have suggested meditation/mindfulness as a solution, but that isn't necessarily the only way forward.
But it is a privilege.
Unless you happen to be very secure in your quickly-commutable job, or located a short commute distance from a variety of different job opportunities, you are at high risk of losing that short commute.
This is exacerbated in places like SV that have disparate job and housing centers, and extremely steep housing costs near those job centers.
> Even when I was taking the train and could read, listen to music, play games, etc, those were always compromise activities and didn't contribute to my personal happiness.
I've found that my short train commute (25 min) is a great time to memorize the compositions for an instrument that I play, with the help of a metronome app while viewing the sheet music on my phone.
It's far more relaxing than reading the news, for certain.
I suspect that it's mostly down to undervaluing our time. Although we all complain about the hell of driving in traffic or riding on a busy train very few people are willing to compromise their income to avoid it. We probably get what we deserve.
I also think that this may have more to do with housing costs than income potential, given that there is a steep cliff of decreasing housing affordability associated with proximity to work, especially in knowledge-sector dominated areas.
This is usually the opposite in manufacturing industry dominated areas (i.e. the Rust Belt), where people often pay more to live farther away (and upwind/upstream) from the environmental externalities created by manufacturing facilities.
But also keeping a journal and writing everyday and analyzing the thoughts you have is incredible for slowing down time and cutting out fluff in life.
Basically, I just want to take a nap, much like O'Connor apparently. There is a note of desperation, perhaps nervous disavowal of death, in our society's insistence on always doing, always improving, always producing.
I haven't read either of these but I did enjoy "How to be Idle" by Tom Hodgkinson years back: https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Idle-Loafers-Manifesto/dp/0060...