> Statistically, that just isn't possible for all holders, meaning any time I hear someone has a degree, it's a coin flipThose are nowhere near equivalent conditions.
> Anecdotally, all of the degree holders within my wife's circle don't have a plan to pay them off.
Even at high-default colleges and universities, the default and delinquency rates are below 10%.
At "good" colleges and universities the rates typically hover in the 1%-3% range.
I wouldn't be surprised to hear that there are strongly connected clusters of people who are delinquent on their student loans (e.g., majors with poor job prospects or certain types of social groups that value partying over studying).
But the fact remains: your wife's social group is extraordinarily unrepresentative.
> I have people very close to me that have no plans to pay off their mortgages, which means the loaners are just consuming payments indefinitely.
I know a lot of people who purchased houses they never intended to pay off because they knew they were only staying in the region for 5-10 years. They all saved money compared to renting and were able to sell their houses for purchase price or higher.
The bank charged lower rent than the landlords. That's all.
This strategy makes less sense if the bank is insisting on a higher down-payment or if you plan on staying in the same city for 15+ years, of course.
But the "rent vs. mortgage" decision is always extremely personal. Without knowing your friend's situation and 5-10 year career plans, it's impossible to know if he's being irresponsible or savvy.
> The latest scare to me was learning that community colleges are catching up to universities in terms of the absurdity in cost.
Citation sorely needed. I can't find a single CC system that comes even close to costing as much as the stat's university system, even at tiny branch campuses.
Also, in many states CC is free for students who do "well" in high school (and "well" here is a pretty low bar, in many states you don't even need a 3.0 gpa in non-honors courses for a full ride at CCs...).