That's pretty comforting. As the solar system we live in seems more unusual it seems more credible that planets with advanced life might be rare. In which case the emptiness of the galaxy seems more explicable.
* The formation of any life at all
* The jump from single-celled life to multi-cellular organisms
* The ability to create/use/pass on knowledge of tools
This aggregate of 'filters' is what's important.
https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-Dark-Forest-Theory-of-the-...
We and we alone have the one and only Trump ;-)