You're not losing your mind, same here. I think a lot - particularly on the younger side - have done almost nothing besides software in a serious way. A lot of people have no perspective on how hard life is for a really large chunk of this country. The "go away to southeast asia and live on a beach for 6 months to reset yourself" is the one that makes me feel most out of touch. If/when we have another crunch some people will have very rude wake up calls.