That argument is total nonsense. Manhattan isn’t a discrete urban unit with its own policies. It’s the central business district, it’s a neighborhood. New York City is vast, and the actual urban area of New York more vast still.
Single bedroom apartments within a short, reasonably efficient, rapid transit commute of midtown can and do go for drastically less money.
The world is literally full of cities that have sane housing and transit policy. If you don’t like New York, try Barcelona or Paris as examples.
The Bay Area is just an abject failure at this, and it’s getting worse. My argument stands, commenting on this topic is like watching one of those “My 600lb Life” shows or something and screaming at the TV. Sure, I get that eventually there’s subtlety to this topic, but for now maybe stop eating 15,000 calories a day.
Or, in this case, stop building massive centers of employment that are 3 stories tall and surrounded by parking lots and wondering why shit isn’t working.