Lock yourself away in a room with nothing but pen and paper (no internet, not books) and try to reproduce Goedel's original proof. Then post the attempt here :)
When I tried this a few years ago I made a mistake in the definition of numbering, got through half the proof, ran into trouble, and gave up before I figured out exactly where the mistake was. And I had already committed the overall outline and the tactical steps for each part to memory...
Even if you remember the entire outline, it'll be really hard to get the details right....
And, more importantly, the outline itself is actually not obvious.
>... much easier for us than for mathematicians of Godel's time because we are familiar with programs and computers
Again, it seems unlikely that this was the sticking point.
E.g. Hilbert understood mathematics as a symbolic game, thought about this exactly question, and didn't come up with Goedel's proof. And Hilbert was definitely no dullard.