I don’t buy that. Let’s say someone stole your life savings, would you still not want reversible transactions? What if someone stole your parent’s or sibling’s life savings?
Furthermore I want to point out that this "no refund" policy of cryptocurrencies is by design, there's no way to change that without effectively turning it into a "regular" centralized and "trustful" currency. It's not a feature, it is a technical limitation of the algorithm, the question is just whether it's a problematic one or not.
Meanwhile Visa and friends, if threatened, could relatively easily launch a competing product with the same characteristics (no chargeback, buyer pays the fees instead of the seller, etc...). I suspect that the main problem with starting something like that is that it would run afoul of existing regulation.
So basically the reason that we're not using Bitcoin-like currency right now is not because we couldn't do it before, it's because we actually realized that we didn't want it. The market has spoken!
[1] https://support.coinbase.com/customer/en/portal/articles/222...
Because 1) on a personal level you won't be able to pay to avail yourself of the court system, and 2) on a social level the cost of doing fraud screening at the payment processing level is trivial in comparison to the expense associated with fraud litigation.
Bearer instruments like gold and Bitcoin are important because of the fact that when stored properly they cannot be seized from you by a 'trusted' third party such as a bank and it's exactly because they can't be reversed.
It's good that we have both options.
I'm sure I'd want to reverse that transaction if it could be done as a special case with no further implications, but I don't think it would change my mind about reversible transactions in general, and I make the decision to hold a currency/commodity with non-reversible transactions understanding that it could backfire in a scenario like the one you describe. I make this tradeoff in part because it allows me to have funds which cannot be accessed by anyone else without the Randall Monroe method of brute force: https://xkcd.com/538/ This is actually a pretty high bar compared to a system where a bank can be ordered to freeze your account. Nobody can freeze my crypto without breaching my physical security, and personally, I'm willing to accept a good deal of risk for that property. It's okay that you have different priorities.
The IRS, US Government, EU or whomever has jurisdiction over your local bank already has the power and ability to seize your physical person. So I don't see what's being gained; if I put all my bank accounts into bitcoin the people you're trying to guard from can still come and coerce me with a gun anyway.
Meanwhile, anybody who isn't one of the aforementioned entities cannot do this, because even if they threaten or kill me, the banking system will reverse the transaction. Thus there isn't any incentive for anybody else to try to physically coerce me, because there's no way for them to keep the money.
For most websites, it's good that people can do a password-reset if things go wrong.
For password-management systems, though, this must be impossible by design, or else the whole system is a joke.