Quite an statement here, 0% from parenting, surely parent beating their child up does influence their upbringing.
One of the telling trait of serial killers are harsh parenting/tough childhood in general btw.
One of the telling trait of serial killers are harsh parenting/tough childhood in general btw.
But even before we even get to overt trauma, simple resentment is pretty powerful in my opinion as well. Resentment can build in lots of ways. Parents perceived to not treat children equally or to restrict child from persuing a particular interest including love interests.
If parents don’t respect a child it has consequences.
Edit: to add that resentment is normally a reciprocation. Meaning, parent resents child and therefore behaves in a manner that causes child to resent parent. Snowball that for a few years / decades = not good.
[0]- https://www.ted.com/talks/nadine_burke_harris_how_childhood_...
It was almost scary that those cats didn't recognise us. I had to hold the "what have you done to my cat!" down more than a few times.
I often wonder if people are similar. That there's really only 1000 different humans or so, and the rest are copies that recognise different people and places. Because for cats, that's definitely the case.