How to Push Past the Pain, as the Champions Do
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I absolutely believe that there's nothing I cannot do, given the time and energy. I've run 2 marathons at the point of mental fatigue. I've cut as many as 20 lbs in a week for wrestling. I finished a college degree with honors while getting at least a dozen confirmed concussions, who knows how many unconfirmed, and while still competing.
I really feel like I can conquer anything. I actually gave up NCAA to work for free at as many startups I could during my 4th year to do the jobs that no one wanted to do. I definitely feel like a made the right decision. I can't be a pro wrestler these days :)
Edit: Typos -- the head bonks are showing :)
Cutting to make weight is not really a good model for healthy, sustainable weight loss.
TLDR: Mostly lost water weight. I'd done it enough to really know how my body worked. I knew the exercise techniques that worked particularly well for me, and I ate a super-clean diet.
This wasn't a Jared Fogel style "I lost x lbs." He lost fat/tissue. For wrestlers, it's mostly a water cut. In sports like wrestling, boxing, or anything with a weight division you may need to lose water weight to get down to the cap of your division. I was 171 in HS and 197-184 in college. You have to be below the division cap (any over 171 in this case would get you DQ'ed).
Water weight isn't too hard to lose when you start. In your sleep, we all lose from 1-3 lbs, then we use the restroom when we wake up (.3-.6 lbs). If you start with a workout in the morning (1-2 lbs depending on the workout), you can walk 2-3 more lbs off throughout the day. Of course, normal people eat and drink in the course of the day to "refill." Over time, you get to the point where you know how to master this cycle, with extra workouts to boost it, and control your diet to engage the metabolic systems. It's a delicate balance.
In college, I wasn't a starter who had to weight in weekly, so I wasn't always close to weight. Even though we'd work out 2-3 hours a day, we have our bodies to the point where an extra push is required to get down to size. Typically, someone my size and structure should never have been more than 5-10 lbs overweight at most. I just came in one Monday weighing a great deal, and I was also tapped to start for that match to give our starter a rest. Since my resting/homeostasis weight was 5-10 lbs over, losing the first 10 lb chunk was easy. The next portion was a little rougher, but I'd been doing this for 7 years (HS + college), so I knew how to do it.
As for the techniques, I would run, jump rope, and wrestle wearing sweats. Wrestling has a higher caloric exertion rate than boxing, which is already way higher than running or jumping rope alone. Our college facilites also had a steam room, so I would clock time there to keep my sweat up after finishing a workout.
As for diet, I'd start each meal with a couple big glasses of water, so I wasn't quite as hungry and wouldn't binge. I'd then eat nutrient-dense vegetables (spinach salad, bell peppers, seeds, berries). Then eat lean protein (chicken breast, fish, no beef). To end I'd either drink a V8 or a yogurt shake. After all of that water and nutrient dense food, you feel stuffed.
All this being said, you'd have to be completely moronic to try to rapidly that much lose water weight without having done so before. Do. Not. Try. This. At. Home. Trained athletes have died doing this wrong
Actually, some of the best athletes move up weight classes now. Cael Sanderson (only 4x undefeated NCAA champ) comes to mind. It's being determined that moving up and eating well increases your strength and speed, and makes you more successful than cutting too hard (to a point). Everyone these days is incredibly lean and well trained- the difference factor is in stamina now, and it is night and day between someone who cut too much weight and someone slightly smaller, but better nourished, than his opponent.
The problem was that I quickly became addicted to running, I would feel extreme depression if I didn't run in the morning and I would often go for a second run as I was craving the pleasure. During my two years of distance running I fantasized about becoming a social outcast who does nothing but runs. Which is what I was, actually. I didn't have many activities aside from running.. I was eventually kicked out of the job I had because I had to go for a team workout in the middle of the day, which screwed up my job performance. Friday nights, Saturday nights, and Sunday nights were spent pounding the pavement.
And I wasn't skinny either, 40-50mpw with workouts sky-rocketed my appetite so I would go on a "Runner's diet": eating everything that was edible. I have lost a lot of weight since I stopped running :)
This might be a controversial view but I do think that running can lead to addiction and even though it's more socially acceptable (not to mention cheaper) than, say, heroin, like any addiction it has its downsides.
Any tips on learning to enjoy running?
For me, it has a lot to do with rhythm. I find a good pace that lets my breathing and my steps achieve some sort of parity. Then I let my actions become automatic. It takes a little while, your muscles have to reach some sort of equilibrium, you have to get a feel for the surface you're on, and my mind usually needs to dump some useless junk first. Eventually the buzz dies down to a drone and you don't think about anything except the motion of your limbs and the air in your lungs.
Find a back road with no distractions and very few other people. Some people like music, some don't (Grateful Dead is popular). I find roads absolutely impossible, they're a erratic pile of breaking concentrations held together with joint-destroying concrete. Find a pace where you don't have to stop. Find a trail long enough where you can forget in the middle how long you've been running and how much longer you have to go. It may take a while. Exhaustion helps.
I remember the first time I had the high I flashbacked into my 8th birthday, where my parents bought me a radio as a gift and we went to my grandmother's house and there was a lot of sun, and everything was so warm and fuzzy. I ran for a couple more miles, came back home and noticed that everything was warm and fuzzy there too. This was a night run, so I slept/dosed off in the bed through the next day and woke up around 2-3am 24 hours later.
That's when I was hooked. That's also when the shit started going wrong.
Where you run matters too. I enjoy running near water - Fresh Pond or the Charles River. I'd suggest running daily, following Hal Higdon's marathon training guide wherever it's most beautiful. http://www.halhigdon.com/marathon/Mar00index.htm
Run cross-country, or better yet, try another sport like cycling or long-distance/cross-country rollerskating.
Pain is your body saying "I'm injured. If you don't stop now, expect things to become worse, potentially causing permanent damage." No athlete I'm aware of pushes through pain unless they expect to retire immediately after, or go into surgery. Runners who do this tend to get knocked out of the sport. Good runners recognize pain for what it is and stop immediately.
Discomfort is different. This is what the article is talking about. Running through cramps. Throwing up but still not stopping. Feeling tired but still pushing ahead. Leg muscles sore but still holding pace.
Of course you need to be careful about discomfort too. It could be a sign that you're severely dehydrated, or have too few electrolytes in your body. This is mostly an issue for distances greater than a marathon, however.
I'm not a runner at all, but I know that stabbing feeling in my side and my lungs frantically gasping for air isn't going to kill me or make me lose a limb...but that annoying clicking in my knee might mean trouble down the line.
You are redefining words to make an argument. Endurance athletes, in particular, will most certainly experience various pain sensations in the course of normal training or an event.
Body awareness is another matter: an elite athlete (presently or potential) is usually better able to interpret what their body is signaling - including noticing when something is going wrong.
Edit: And, actually, sometimes a real injury manifests itself as a discomfort during exercise, not pain.
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For what it is worth, you can become dehydrated enough to compromise performance in an hour, less if it is very warm. Dehydration to the point of needing medical attention can occur in 2-3 hours at a moderate intensity. Typical symptom of mild dehydration (the kind you can suffer sleeping on a hot night) is discomfort in the form of a headache.
If you've ever seen a great runner working out - it's almost painful to even watch - but always very impressive.
If you don't mind me asking, what were your PRs? I got lapped on a mile in high school (the guy ran a sub-5!)
Have you read Once a Runner? Was that what your training life was like?
Interesting offshoot - The whole point of training 20 hours a week for the Ironman triathlon (2.4 mile swim, 112 mile bike, 26.2 mile marathon) is so that the body never goes anaerobic during the actual Ironman race. When the body goes anaerobic (lactic acid buildup), everything goes downhill rapidly - it goes from racing a PR (personal record) to whether you will finish the race.
And then there are the Marathon Monks of Tendai:
> The ultimate achievement is the completion of the 1,000-day challenge, which must surely be the most demanding physical and mental challenge in the world. Forget ultra-marathons and so-called iron-man events, this endurance challenge surpasses all others.
Only 46 men have completed the 1,000-day challenge since 1885. It takes seven years to complete, as the monks must undergo other Buddhist training in meditation and calligraphy, and perform general duties within the temple.
Nothing fancy compared to people I trained with.
I've read Once a Runner a long time ago. Training life is similar - it's all consuming really. In many ways it's like a job and a way of life.
Since I gave up running and got on with my life, I still train and compete competitively - even low key competition is enough to keep things interesting and motivating even though it's not the way of life it used to be.
I don't recommend that people do marathons actually. I've done 3 and they take such a tremendous effort to recover from that a lot of people just stay on the couch and don't start running again.
As with any form of highly competitive athletics, the best advice is to choose your parents carefully.
These two things seems contradictory. If they crave pain, why would they need to push their pain threshold?
(Disclosure: I'm a wimpy athlete. I always thought pain was the body's signal that something was wrong, so I backed off. Your remark confuses me even more. Just trying to understand.)
A couple things eventually happen. First is the athlete starts to associate pain with progress. This is actually a bad thing since pain should always remain as valid feedback and signal a person to think about the actions they are taking. Second and more import is that the athlete accepts the pain and deals with it. Like most things in life, it sucks a lot more until you know what to expect. For example, getting punched in the face causes pain, but more than that it causes surprise. Remove that surprise and even if the pain is the same, the athlete will now react in a more sensible way from the punch.
For reference, I don't do any long distance (5k is what I maintain) running but have always played various sports, trained in MA, and primarily powerlift now (at least until the ski slopes open!).
[1] After experiencing all sorts of pain over the years there are definitely good pains and bad pains. IMHO, it takes time and experience to recognize what pains are what :)
Seriously, my body used to tell me "oh god stop stop stop this is too much" after 30 miles of flat riding. Now it take 60 miles of hilly riding to experience that, and it's not nearly as strong.
I guess to sum it up, it isn't normal pain, it's more of a mental wall that you push past.
Unfortunately recovering from injury takes longer as we age so reasonable habits for a 19 year old can get a 35 year old into serious trouble. Also, you tend to get a mix of short and long term dammage so repeating low level pain can still be a sign your doing significant long term dammage.
[1] People are often willing to do longer term damage in major contests and fights. How reasonable this is depends on your personal goals.
As a person who regularly runs marathons and ultramarathons, I often get asked "Why?".
I usually offer the "joking" response "I like suffering" with a chuckle. Except it's not really a joke, I DO like the suffering. When I'm out there suffering on the trail, I learn many truths about myself. There's no facade or BSing. I either press on, or I quit/fail.
But you can't explain or rationalize this to a layperson who doesn't seek similar ventures. They aren't of the right mind. So you make it a "joke".
I love the quote "Suffering is the sole origin of consciousness", but I suspect it's for a different reason than what Dostoevsky meant.
You don't need to be an "elite athlete" to experience this or push past the pain. For some people, it's running a 5k.
But in reality I also enjoy the suffering. There have been many hard hikes where I could simply turn around and the only person who would know is me, but I kept going anyways. You're someone who can understand the feeling of simply focusing on your next step and having the rest of the world melt away. After dealing with complexities all day at work it's nice to do something so...simple. Climb this mountain or lift this weight (I also love powerlifting with deadlifts being my absolute favorite).
When I rest I feel utterly lifeless except that my throat burns when I draw breath...I can scarcely go on. No despair, no happiness, no anxiety. I have not lost the mastery of my feelings, there are actually no more feelings. I consist only of will. -Messner talking about his first solo ascent of Everest
An athlete's relationship to pain is ridiculously complex. Partly because pain is so complex, and really should be split out in different concepts/words. Adjectives are just so clumsy. For example, high performance athletes must learn to differentiate the pain of training from the pain of injury. It is possible to push too hard, to suck up too much pain. But it's also possible to be too tentative. Striking that balance is what keeps high performance athletes healthy, but always improving (something I have big problems with).
I cannot speak for everyone, but when I and some of the more competitive athletes I am friends with go to train, we want the pain. Going into training, we look forward to the burn. We know that it's good, that it signals progress, that it will fade, and that it means that we are better. But once we get into the training, all the love and craving doesn't change the fact that your legs are dying and lungs are on fire and arms don't want to move. The love by itself will not keep you going on. You have to push through that pain. The fact that you were pumped up 5 minutes ago doesn't mean anything in the moment.
The fact that you were pumped up 5 minutes ago doesn't mean anything in the moment.
A thousand times yes.
I have heard it said that "pain is the feeling of weakness leaving the body".
It's a signal that your body is under stress, but that can be a good thing. One of the keys is understanding the difference between the pain of "I'm stretching my capabilities" and the pain of "I'm damaging something".
For programmers/entrepreneurs, this may translate to pushing past your concentration/sleep/tenacity threshold.
[1]: http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/27/health/nutrition/27best.ht...
Sometimes your body wants to stop just because it's hard, but your mental faculty recognizes that it's ultimately best if you can resist. Other times, it really needs to stop.
I did two sports on national elite level and whenever you train or race beyond the "threshold" you put yourself into great danger, and only because you spend years near that threshold you are able to handle it. An elite runner or cyclist or whatever can tell the difference between pain that will go away when you slow down, and pain that will get worse or could put you into a wheelchair. When elite sportsmen(-women) loose control because of any thirdparty event, even when in unbearable pain, they have a high chance to regain control because they don't think about how they do it, it just happens. It's not a coincidence, that those people walk away from a crash, where hobby sportsmen loose there life. (Remember Lance going through the grass at the TdF ~6 years ago?)
> An elite runner or cyclist or whatever can tell the difference between pain that will go away when you slow down, and pain that will get worse or could put you into a wheelchair.
I don't think you need to be all that 'elite' to figure that out. You don't need too much training to start feeling what sort of pain is from effort and exertion, and what might be tendons or joints or something like that that should not be pushed beyond a certain point.
Like the interviewee in the article, I definitely didn't look pretty in the photos: http://flic.kr/p/8KQANq
But I don't think that it's compatible with your service.
Oh cool! I've always told friends that if you can listen to music or talk, you're not running fast enough. It's for this reason that I can't ever go out for just a "jog" unless I really need to recover... when you get in that zone you're like an antsy racehorse wanting to shoot out of the gate. The desire is just to go as fast as possible.
I love that part of the run though, where it's your mind against your body. You keep repeating to yourself that you can make it... each step closer to the goal. Your body wants to quit, but each step boosts your confidence. It gives you that runner's high.
For me, running is always about that focused relaxation. As the pain increases, you must focus yourself to continue to exert as much energy as possible in a relaxed and fluid manner.
I'm a programmer doing almost all client work. Eventual goal is to build a different kind of business around building my own stuff.
One probable analog is knowing the course. That should mean it's easier to work well on tasks that I can see the end of, but it should also mean that it's easier to do something very much like something I've done before. The first may be helpful, the second is obvious and not helpful.
I have no direct competitors to keep in view or focus on beating. Maybe I can hack my brain to think about the work competitively somehow.
If there's an analog to focusing on the running, I'm not sure how it would work.
An interesting article on its own merits, certainly, but trying to translate this philosophy directly into an approach to mental work sounds to me like a recipe for burnout, not a recipe for extreme performance gains. And by the time you're done tweaking it to actually work on the brain, you might as well have just started directly with an approach tuned to the brain, starting with this stuff will only have hurt you.
I've been fortunate to be able to start for two national championship winning rugby teams, and I give a small fraction of credit for my personal athletic success to some of the lessons in the book.
It's now called Toughness Training for Sports: http://www.amazon.com/New-Toughness-Training-Sports-Psycholo...
She mentioned that it changed her life (turning her into an Olympic athlete) and that it was very popular at the Olympic training camp.
http://www.amazon.com/Born-Run-Hidden-Superathletes-Greatest...
Mental tenacity — and the ability to manage and even
thrive on and push through pain — is a key segregator
between the mortals and immortals
- Mary Wittenberg
I think the quote works much better like that.In any case, if you find this sort of thing inspiring, check out a documentary called Running on the Sun (trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-e4bOLAuXg ). It's about the badwater ultra -- a 135 mile road race through death valley to Mount Whitney, including 13000 ft of vertical ascent. Featuring air temps up to 130F and ground temps around 200F -- people have sneakers melt. Race by application only; you have to have completed a bunch of ultras so hopefully you won't die trying. The men's record is something like 22.5 hours and the women's is I think slightly over 25 hours.