For what it's worth, I used variable variables when making a DB class for a project I was working on last year.
It isn't something you can easily debug and it is complicated. That said, it isn't the gates to hell that it is represented as. It's a tool, and it can make code cleaner if you want it to.
function __tostring(){ $items = ['title','header','comment'] foreach($items as $item){ echo $this->$item; } }
Make that list of class variables much longer and you start to see the benefits in certain cases.
There are times when I do miss variable variables.