See also http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peano_axioms if you prefer the math and logic jargon. High school geometry taught me to dislike dealing with formal proofs, but I think that should be about the right area to look.
Suppose that d != a - b + c. Since a = b, a - b = 0. This implies d != c. This is a contradiction, so our supposition is inaccurate. d = a - b + c
Now, suppose a + c != b + d. Plug in what we just learned. a + c != b + a - b + c. The b's cancel, leaving another contradiction. Thus, supposition inaccurate, so a + c = b + d. QED
I remember that integers are usually defined in terms of successors: Succ 1 = 2. But this doesn't help for real numbers because they can't really be enumerated?
=> a + c = a + c (addition is commutative under Peano arithmetic)
=> a + c = b + c (a == b)
=> a + c = b + d (c == d)
qed
Also, d= a-b+c
Probably doesn't help but thats about the limit of my capabilities!
a + c = b + d a + c = a + c # replaced b with a and d with c