That being said I don't think the "well just let it blow up" is a good one either. It works in a certain subset of cases (when you know that your program can only do certain things and you have a useful supervisor such as in Erlang).
I think that philosophy is part of why Clojure has historically had problems with error handling especially in its own toolchain (e.g. its rather cryptic error messages) and still doesn't really have good tooling or patterns for it (e.g. I think nil punning is a dangerous pattern, throwing useful and specific exceptions feels unidiomatic with the need for gen-class, and it doesn't seem like other solutions have garned much mind share).
Spec is gaining momentum, but seems to still be spewing mysterious messages that require some familiarity to decipher in some cases (although last I checked things seemed to be on the upswing and I'm quite out of date with Clojure at this point).
Even when your app fails you still want to do leave a human readable message and then e.g. log metrics on what kind of error it was and metadata about the error to some supervisor service rather than just let whatever the deepest exception was filter through. "Our authorization request to the database failed with an authorization error and this is the metadata" saves a lot of time compared to an NPE, especially when you're the maintainer and not the writer of the code in question.
The Elm community I think is the gold standard of taking the error path as seriously as the success path when it comes to their tooling and it really pays in my experience when I use it.