Hence you don't have a safety net and can't be an entrepreneur. If you can take the chance of getting rich or becoming homeless, good luck with that. Otherwise, 9-5 jobs are the only option.
* Wealthy in time to spend with those you love
To past me, I highly recommend audiobooking "Millionaire Fastlane". Do not let the awkward title turn you off. It'll put you in a much more productive mindset than Mr. Mustache.
Another book I recommend is "How to Fail at Everything and Still Win Big". Adams has a great approach of using systems instead of goals.
I think everybody who works 9-5 should read the story about Grace Groner in [1]. It was a real eye opener for me.
[1] https://www.collaborativefund.com/blog/the-psychology-of-mon...