Isn't it possible it isn't a unified issue?
I grew up in a rural region and I've seen the production first hand both on medium-sized farms to single hunts.
I have had pets I've loved and watched them die and it made me sad. I also have an issue with the mass whaling because we know of the extinction risks and the goal when eating an animal isn't to wipe out the species.
I will confess, however, I haven't seen one of the American style factory farms. Any I've been to here in Canada haven't been so cold or apparently cruel and nowhere near the size and volume of production.
I live in the city now and I consider myself lucky for knowing where all of my food feasibly comes from.
For that reason I don't see it as schizophrenic or cognitive dissonance. I like to think it's an accepting awareness— I think we're still very much animals, but ones at least intelligent enough to maintain the planet in good order and to avoid cruelty (if we give a damn).
Clearly there are problems in how a lot of food production (not just meat) is carried out, and usually with a root cause of greed.
Pegging those problems to people essentially not all resigning to vegan eating makes my head spin a little.
Side question for anyone who carries your perspective: I might even agree that refraining from eating any animals is the morally superior option— but do you think we morally owe it to nature (or whatever end) to refrain more than any other animal?