The First Thru-Hike of the Mexican Border
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This mirrors most of my experience for travel advice. Why do people give advice when they haven’t been there and don’t know anyone that has?!?
Well, TBF you probably wouldn't give advice to visit, say, Aleppo right now, or jump off a cliff, even though I doubt you've done either.
And so I think people generalize with the same heuristic: Someone from Minnesota or someone from Brownsville sees the same Fox News and gets the same fear; they know it's OK where they are so the danger must be someplace they haven't been.
It's the same reason a person might be racist or have strong prejudicial opinions even though they know and are friends of the prejudiced group: "well my friend is the exception". I have actually been on the receiving end of that!
I agree it's dumb, but the above seems like a reasonable explanation.
Aleppo is a great example. Why would I advise someone not to go? Without knowing who they are, when they’re going and for what purpose, it seems preposterous that any advice would be given at all. Asking a few questions would highlight if they’re making an informed decision and if they possess the information I hold. There are reasonable reasons to be going to Syria (soldier, aid worker, contractor, reporter) and repeating the last headline read is not useful.
As for jumping off a cliff, isn’t that cliff diving? If you mean suicide, hopefully you have first hand experience on the value of life, which could be provided as useful advice.
My frustration is how quickly people provide their opinions as advice, often oblivious to how informed the receiver is on the given subject.
It's remarkable how local people's knowledge is, even in this day and age.
Seems like a good response to me
I consider myself a pretty experienced hiker and I wouldn't even attempt either of those two. Not sure where you're getting your information but it doesn't seem to be this article.
Edit: There are some areas along the border where smugglers are reported to be armed more frequently, but this is almost exclusively in areas where two cartels compete for smuggling routes and their weapons are carried to defend against the other cartels, not to use against civilians or law enforcement. They don't want to get caught with weapons in the U.S., as that significantly increases their legal exposure vs. just bales of marijuana.
There was a story a while back where a girl got snatched (for leverage to get the drugs her father was sitting on) and when the kidnappers figured out they got the intended victim's friend instead they just let her go with a "umm, yeah, our bad".
Not to discount the issue, though. There are cases where the human smugglers keep people hostage until the families come up with extra money and/or sell them into slavery which is definitely no bueno.
Some notes: crips didn't really exist in nyc until about 20 years ago, so it might be more believable if you changed the gang member's affiliation (Latin Kings maybe? I think they were around then). Also, no one says "waxed his ass", it makes you sound super corny. Keep at it though, eventually you'll nail that hard-boiled detective thing you're going for :)
But whatever... you're the big expert on my life (and phrases racers say and the timeline of the arrival of gangs in NYC,) and have certainly mixed with more dangerous people than I have. ;)
And yep, for sure nobody ever got shot for no real fucking reason in the city back then, nor in Mexico nowadays. Crime is made up by Fox News.. and gangs--they don't exist.
If it is a fact, I don't think it's a fact that is supported by your anecdote. You removed the hair from this guy's butt! While I don't think your perhaps uninvited waxing was a good justification for a shooting, it's just as disconnected from the situation we were discussing as the ISIS example.
Really though; people are generally good, and you shouldn't be scared to get out and have a look around.
You SHOULD have a look around, but with the understanding that you may run into bad people. DISCERNMENT is the highest value when venturing into unexplored territory, not naivete.
The other part of your post makes it sound like you believe Santa Claus maintains the authoritative naughty/nice registry; I just don't think the world is so simple.