Also, the #metoo movement is pretty dangerous in the sense that prominent people in it are seeking legal frameworks and changes. See my comment about Heidi Matthews's interview and take on me too on the Owls at Dawn podcast.
You can't help how you feel. If you fall in love with someone at work or in academia or in some other type of "position of authority," do we now need contracts to ensure the relationship is wanted by both parties?
That would be the legal requirement, and .. do you need another contract to break up? Maybe you should give your partner two weeks notice?
I feel like there are a lot of deep complexities here and really difficult questions, more than a simple harassment complaint. I think the people ruling on this complaint must have felt the same way.
I think back to some of my partners. I can't imagine having all our personal e-mails and notes put on display for a committee to decide the nature of our relationship. What world are we living in?