I was employee #1 with a substantial equity stake, and my lawyer has found half a dozen ways I could be screwed. By default these contracts are incredibly one sided, but they don’t have to be. And as a rule in a startup if you can be legally screwed out of your money, you will be.
EDIT: The linked site does have great advice and is vastly better than just about anything else on the topic you can find on the internet. Just remember that there will be a _lawyer_ on the other end, and they know this stuff much better than you do. It's better to retain a lawyer on your end as well, especially if the amount of equity is non-trivial.
That is a (dark) awesome quote.
I'd imagine employee #1 vs #289 asking for a change get different results.
You are not asking for anything extra here, you're just asking, de facto, for conditions that would let you value the options part of your compensation at anything greater than zero. You got dinged for it on the base salary after all, and it costs the company very close to zero to give you this paper wealth. If the contract is abusive, you can be sure you'll be treated 100% in line with the letter of the contract and your options are very likely to be worth nothing.
Don't be afraid to offend, this is just business. Don't speak in confrontational tone either though, and be prepared to walk away, just like in any other negotiation. The worst outcome is nothing changes, but you had that to begin with. If you're aggressive, the second move will be an email from the company lawyer telling you the changes you've suggested are out of the question. After that, if you're prepared to walk away, they will agree to a part or all of it.
The net benefit of this is you could introduce numerous improvements into your option contract if you succeed, i.e. eliminate or weaken the clawback clauses, negotiate early exercise, take care of accelerated vesting or option replacement in case of an acquisition (otherwise you could be left with literally nothing after the exit), vastly extend the exercise window (from the default 0-90 days after you leave to many years), negotiate that you get to keep shares if you're _fired_, etc, etc. A good lawyer could write a thick tome on this, and you're NOT going to be able to learn it in your spare time.
If equity is substantial, and you think it might eventually be worth anything, I also advise hiring a tax accountant with experience in such matters. There are different types of stock options, with different levels of taxation (conditioned on your exercise strategy). Under some strategies you could end up on the hook for six-seven figure amounts of tax even though you can't sell your shares, and might never be able to do so.
But for most startups, given the low probability of success and the many ways you can be screwed (dilution, clawback, liquidation preferences, etc) you'd need to have A LOT of faith in your startup (and in the soundness of your options contract) to exercise early.
If you do nothing else, try to negotiate that: a). You're not required to sell _vested_ stock back to the company if you leave / or even get fired, b). You get _something_, preferably full, immediate vesting, in the event of an acquisition, c). Your exercise window spans many years after you leave, so that if the startup does exit you can get something for the vested portion of your option without exercising it before you leave (and potentially exposing yourself to massive reaming by the IRS).
None of the above is a replacement for proper legal / tax advice though, it's merely a distillation of the advice I received that was applicable to my particular circumstances at the time.
82b sign on bonuses are cheaper than the actual cost, since the money is really the employee's marginal tax rate, since early exercise money comes back to the corp.
That is typically around series A or B, which is a lot earlier than the typical switch to RSUs.
In practice, unless the cost is so cheap that doing an 83b is not hard, then an RSU is no different than an option to an employee. The employees will only exercise when there is some sort of liquidity.
No employee is going to have the capital to exercise any other time either, because it's only to get more expensive with AMT as time goes on.
By RSU I mean stock that is granted only when you have met the time requirement as in normal stock options, and when the company is liquid (acquisition or IPO). Cheap stock options that don't expire when you leave also work too.
Don't take a job whose comp terms are incompatible with your goals; of course not. But again: be careful imputing intentionality. It's not a "red flag".
Make a spreadsheet, add probabilities of how things will work with current IPO timelines (+10yrs), chances of exit at each startup stage, the loss your getting from investing the same amount of cash working at bigco in ETFs, projected career growth, cost of living, etc.
There are other benefits to working at a startup though. For one thing you might end up on a great team. For another there's far less bureaucracy and process that gets in the way of doing things. For yet another, most of the truly "cool" things are done by startups, and your chance of getting a job doing something intellectually rewarding is far greater there (in my estimation at least). Simple fact is, FANGs of the world have some pretty cool teams, but those teams as a rule have no open positions, so pro tip: don't go to Google thinking you'll work on Brain or autonomous cars at any point in your future, unless you're joining those teams directly. Startups do have open positions every imaginable type of work, tech stack, or field.
But yeah, do consider whether money to fun balance is there, and if it's worth it for you.
Only if that's actually what you'd do with the money. If working for a startup means working from home in rural/suburban Oregon and working for bigco means you're living in SF proper the rent and ancillary costs may make dumping the excess cash into the market unlikely or not particularly lucrative.
The questions, I think, have to come down to:
* Do you trust the team? Did you check references? That includes that of their investors.
* How tolerant are you of risk? The biggest risk with startups is, of course, that equity will be worth zero. The contract risk you're talking about is comparatively marginal. People get screwed by contracts, yes, of course. It's worth being wary. But for every startup engineer screwed by contracts, 20 have been screwed by investing years of their lives into companies that fell over and died. Keep perspective.
I am very sympathetic to employees minding their rights in these equity transactions. I don't think equity is a particularly good deal for employees most of the time. But I've noticed a pathology with some people who are super microscope-and-tweezers about these kinds of contract terms. It's not always a great look. Better instead to be someone who can look at the total package (maybe with input from your lawyer) and make a snap decision: do I believe in this opportunity, for me, or not? Obviously, the bigger problem in our field is that people want to believe way too much.
The legal wrangling, for most engineers, isn't going to do anything to improve the bottom line. Leaving and picking better companies, on the other hand, might.