I suspect it's a Perl thing (use Perl with anger).
Here is a 1998 Usenet posting in alt.sysadmin.recovery that uses it:
https://groups.google.com/forum/message/raw?msg=alt.sysadmin...
The message ID is: slrn756lf3.9lm.nik@catkin.nothing-going-on.org
Ah, slrn; what I'm using today. :)
However, Philip Wadler (famed FP computer scientist) used this phrase in a February 1998 article called "Functional Programming: An angry half-dozen":
http://www.cs.huji.ac.il/course/2003/pllab/print-files/wadle...
The paper says that a postdoc colleague, a dozen years earlier (thus 1986) asked Wadler about his new bicycle: "have you used it in anger yet?"
Wadler may have introduced this as a meme pertaining to programming languages or constructs. In any case, if he did actually glean it from someone else's internet posting about a programming language being used in anger, he's sure not admitting it in this paper.