Do bear in mind that most of the costs of global warming are based around:
1) It is happening much faster than we can cope with. If it was happening over 10,000 years then we'd slowly adapt. Or die out. One or the other.
2) Our cities are mostly built on coastlines, and will therefore be hit dramatically by severe weather and by sea rises.
This graph shows just how far off the norm we are for the past two millenia:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Global_temperature_record#/med...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Geologic_temperature_record#/m...
You also say you think the last decade seemed colder, the reply you got was that 16 of the 17 hottest years since recording began were after 2000. But you ignore that part of the reply.
You are working for the forces that want to stop our mitigation of the problem, you are the enemy.
It is no use to try to win them over, that's not why they're arguing.