But the original definition was arbitrary. Yes, it was chosen to be a "nice, round" measurement of
something (distance from equator to pole), but it doesn't really matter; what matters is having a consistent unit of measure. Once it was chosen, it didn't make sense to change the physical length it referred to, because that would have caused inconsistencies between old and new measurements. Instead, new definitions allow the same unit of measure to be defined more precisely, thereby allowing greater consistency between results where extreme precision is required.
My point about the speed of light was that if we were coming up with a unit of measure now, we would not arbitrarily base it on the distance from the equator to the pole, which is by nature imprecise, but rather on the speed of light, since that is the most fundamental and precise reference we have. And if we were basing it on the speed of light, we would pick a round number, because there is one available that results in a meter of useful length. (By chance, very close to the actual meter.)