Partition tolerance does not mean your distributed system can't be consistent and available because your network dropped one packet, or one node failed. What would be the point of such a definition? Instead, the CAP theorem implies that while the network is partitioned, consistency or availability must be sacrificed. In the case of the dropped packet, once it is retransmitted the partition is healed and progress can be made. Or in the case of the failed node, nothing says that the rest of the system can't be consistent and available, so that the system as a whole maintains that property. There is no requirement that the unavailable node be available.
Truly partition tolerant systems are those that continue to function in the face of a prolonged partition, and those are the systems that must sacrifice either consistency or availability.