From developer to entrepreneur: Learning to build an indie startup
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Today I was looking at a project one person posted on the internet. A labor of work, probably a week. One of the few comments was "Is this real? [...] This is dumb and useless."
Imagine being that person, spending a lot of time crafting something, even just for fun, being told that. You probably won't do anything like that ever again.
The best thing as a maker is finding a welcoming community and a place where even if you fail, it's not the end of the world, tomorrow is a new day and you can make something new that will succeed.
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Some people have a low self intertia. It takes very little external preasure to change their perception of them selves. They can’t just “fix” that. Many don’t even know they could “fix” it.
It’s like a parent telling a kid they suck at somthing. It has a lasting effect on the persons perception of them selves.
The author in the article was talking about the reaction of friends, so we can’t say whether or not random internet comments would have meant something to the author, but they certainly do to some people.
I think it’s a valuable skill to be able to save your criticism for when it really matters to you, and then to deliver it in a thoughtful manner. Even if you’re anonymous on the internet. A good rule, for me, especially on the internet is to ask myself what I hope to achieve from someone reading what I post. In that context I certainly hope you’d never write “Is this real? [...] This is dumb and useless.".
(nb- I am not being sarcastic. I genuinely do think this.)
Even better would be learning to be completely immune to harsh criticisms that are not constructive. i.e. not giving them any more emotional validity than they deserve.
For makers the rush dies pretty quickly once the idea is validated (with praise, press or downloads) or invalidated (nobody cares).
Unfortunately, the journey only truly begins after that point and everything upto it really doesn't matter because even if your are on the frontpage of HN/PH it's not that big of a deal after a week.. But doing support, handling feedback, doing the boring stuff like content marketing, seo, optimizing conversions and worst of all waiting is the part that matters. The stuff that really makes your product incrementally into a business but which you can't see happen (like a flower bloom).
Pieter's work is great because he applies everything that everyone says you should do but in the most simple and effective ways.
France is a country where failure is a taboo. People see
it as unwise to start anything and will try to discourage you
Actually, once you have the "fuck you" attitude, this kind of environment pushes you in the right direction...So true. I suffer from that.
Maybe part of the reason there is no "Silicon Valley" of Europe is cultural? This attitude will have a chilling effect on anything that requires risk...
[1] https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2012/10/think-w...