For me it has always been about performance. jQuery is slow. Even way back in the day before JavaScript got fast you could access the DOM quickly if you knew what you were doing. Likewise DOM access could easily make your code 5 times slower if you didn't know what you were doing.
Since 2012 JavaScript has been fast in every major browser and querySelectors are a standard feature. Since about that time accessing the DOM has always been 10s-100s of times faster than using the standard querySelectors. In Firefox it is 10s of thousands of times faster. The standard querySelectors are faster than using modern jQuery.
To me this is the difference between a junior developer and a competent developer. Some people NEED the extra help. I understand that. If product quality and achieving a superior user experience are important though you will simply figure out a better way of writing code, especially since writing code is probably your job.