The issue in our country is that we are increasingly making the default way of life for average Americans be one of more anguish and stress when we do not have to. None of the options for success in the US that we currently have are going to handle the mass group of unemployed people that something like automated cars or fast food resturaunts automating will bring, especially when so many are already doing so poorly
If you and your daughter's mother made the "right" decisions, your daughter wouldn't have to enlist in the military to have a chance at a good life.
I'll show myself out now.
Also, what triggered me was your “leftist” comment. The military is essentially a social welfare system funded by tax payers. I’ve never met a person who joined because they wanted to be a hero or because of some sort of prestige. Almost everyone joins because of the benefits or travel or because their families forced the issue, among other reasons. It would be great if our government offered similar incentives using tax money for other career paths. As I understand it, it’s a “leftist” ideal that is constantly being shot down by the “right”. Maybe I’m wrong about that.
Anyway, you seem like a decent man and your daughter sounds like she was raised well. I’m sure she will make a fine officer someday.
How ironic she's relying on the taxpayer for her financial future. Good job the rest of us actually generate economic activity so we can pay taxes to pay for her.
I have a lot of respect for the military, and part of that comes from the incredibly high cost most military members face. Not only the potential to lose their life, but to come back carrying a strong mental weight, and to typically have to fight tooth and nail to get the benefits they were promised for signing up for in the first place.
To say your posts in this thread are disingenuous would be putting it lightly.
People should have a sense of personal responsibility, certainly. People should also be financially educated and make good career decisions. We should also look to our political and financial organizations to find problems in the large and do what we can to fix them. And since we live in such a diverse society with drastically different values (the very values your daughter and her colleagues nobly fight to protect), the answer is not "everyone else should adopt my way of thinking". Even if you're "right", that is simply not a realistic path for policy makers, who need to deal with problems in the large.
Maybe this will highlight my thinking - I'm an engineer who went to engineering school and chose a rational career path with high expected gains. I have friends who majored in art at a very expensive school and will likely never be able to pay off their debts. I would say they did not manage their career well and perhaps should have made a different decision. However I would not want to live in a world where we did not have artists. Art education of some type is necessary for us to maintain our culture, so if everybody did the personally "rational" thing where would we be as a society?