In Apple's computers the web cam light cannot be disabled, because the web cam is controlled by a co-processor as demoed here. In the newer Pros with Touchbar Apple uses their own chip for this same function.
On a lot of PC webcams, you can run the camera without the light or visa versa[0].
[0] https://blog.erratasec.com/2013/12/how-to-disable-webcam-lig...