Obligatory pedantic HN grammar comment: on the outside chance that the gp's gender is not binary, the word 'they' is a good stand-in gender neutral pronoun to 'he/she'. You also have at least 14 alternatives to choose from (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third-person_pronoun#Summary) and two more if you're at a Renaissance faire (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third-person_pronoun#Historica...). For the grammar snobs, this convention has existed since the 16th century.