Why not just dollars?
Maybe you could trust the person asking for crypto instead of showing an anti-crypto bias?
[0] https://coinmetrics.io/charts/#assets=btc,eth_left=averageFe...
The StdCost right now is a dime. You can get away with less if you're willing to wait for confirmation (which is possible if you're transacting locally with neighbors).
I have a feeling what you're looking at is old data? Transfers are cheap right now